January 5, 2010
Wow. I suppose this can be a scary thought..."How do I affect people?" is a question that many of us may not want to answer. We are all out there, trying to find our way in the world, trying to survive, trying to make the best of things for our family and friends, right? But what is your influence? How do people really perceive you? What influence do you have on those around you? Do you like to complain? Do you recognize some of the negativity that comes our of your mouth on a regular basis? Do you constantly complain to others about your job, your spouse, your kids, your lack of opportunities? How do people feel after they've left you? Getting into the bad habit of complaining doesn't really help anyone does it? Ok, well, maybe the 'venting' feels good at the moment, but it serves only you, and then for only a brief moment. Wouldn't it be better to inspire? Wouldn't it make you a more pleasant person to be around if you stated more positive remarks than negative ones? What if, by being POSITIVE with your words and deeds, inspired someone to achieve their goals? What if, by focusing on the GOOD things in life, you helped lift someone's spirits? What if, by being more motivated, helpful and positive, you could help life your own spirit's? What kind of life would that be like?
Posted by Cathlyn Driscoll. Posted In : Challenges
November 17, 2009
I once struggled with self esteem issues. (Who hasn't?) I was able to read and study my way out of my poor perception of myself, but not everyone has the time, energy or resources to do so. So let me challenge your perception for a moment. Do you have a best friend? What do they think of you? Do you respect them and their opinions? Do you think they'd be best friends with someone who didn't have value? Your best friend is probably pretty smart, and HAPPY they know you. You know, there are a l... Continue reading...
Posted by Cathlyn Driscoll. Posted In : Perspective
November 16, 2009
by Jim Rohn (I'm a huge fan of Jim Rohns, and this is a fab article, so I thought I'd let him do the talking today! ~ Happigal)
If
you were to evaluate the major influences in your life that have shaped
the kind of person you are, this has to be high on the list: the people
and thoughts you choose to allow into your life. My mentor Mr. Shoaff
gave me a very important warning in those early days that I would like
to share with you. He said, “Never u... Continue reading...
Posted by Cathlyn Driscoll. Posted In : Your Environment
October 27, 2009
I was visiting a hospital recently, and, certainly they have their fair share of challenges and stressful situations on a daily basis. The elevator opened and was filled with anxious, dour faced people in painful situations. But I was in an exceptionally good mood one day, and at first, this group took me aback. Then, I decided not to join them, but rather to walk in with a big smile on my face- and I looked people in the eye. Well, it turned out to be a breath of fresh air for them! Very qui... Continue reading...
Posted by Cathlyn Driscoll. Posted In : Rants
October 20, 2009
People sometimes mistake a happy, upbeat, optimistic attitude with lack of common sense or someone who is naive. But I honestly believe it's a mistake to walk around dreading life, assuming it's all just a huge, long struggle and that we are meant to suffer on a daily basis. Life is what ever you make of it. There are countless stories of people who had nothing and created a life of abundance for themselves and helped others. They had to 'envision' it first before making it happen for themsel... Continue reading...
Posted by Cathlyn Driscoll. Posted In : Perspective
October 13, 2009
My beautiful daughter in law has taught me many lessons in life. Her
smile, her joy of life, her love of my son is a blessing that I'm truly
grateful for. One of her daily habits is to take a moment before
sitting down to a meal and be thankful for it. She is not just saying
'grace'. She is truly thankful for all her blessings, and for the meal
set before her. Even when the entire family is out to dinner at a
restaurant, you can see her gently take a 'moment' for herself, a
pause, where she c... Continue reading...
Posted by Cathlyn Driscoll. Posted In : Perspective
October 8, 2009
I started emailing friends my "Daily Dose of Optimism" quotes formally just a few months ago. It started when I was working at an accounting firm years ago (marketing dept). The team was going through a tough transitional time, and I started sending out optimistic, happy, 'you can do it' quotes to several close colleagues to help them keep their spirits up. After leaving the firm, I'd send one or two out to my former colleagues every now and again. I'd also send some to my family and friends.... Continue reading...
Posted by Cathlyn Driscoll. Posted In : Perspective
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